I’m currently watching reruns of “Hilari,” and her older sister, Minori, has broken up with Dr. Ryuta and is receiving an ardent approach from a doctor named Kobayashi.
Kobayashi has skipped the dating stage and is persistent, saying, “Marry me. I want you to say yes soon.”
Minori complains in front of Kobayashi, Dr. Ryuta never even held my hand…” andHe doesn’t find me attractive…”
She thinks that she might be happy with Kobayashi, who genuinely likes her, but she feels like she doesn’t really like Kobayashi…
It seems to be an eternal theme for women who are troubled by love, but I think it’s a little dangerous to think that a man who comes on to you passionately is a sincere man who loves you.
However, it seems that many women still have a desire to be strongly pursued.
I think the strength of a person’s approach to love is a little different from the depth of their feelings.
Even if they seem sincere, it’s probably just a matter of their cautious personality.
When you think, “I love you!” and “I want to have you!”, I think the style of action you take towards your goal is reflected by Mars.
So I’ll list Mars-style approaches for each of the four categories.
★ Mars in Fire Sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
Very passionate. Aries and Sagittarius act quickly.
Leo values the mood.
They don’t hide their ulterior motives.
★ Earth Sign Mars (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
At first glance they seem businesslike and bureaucratic.
Taurus and Capricorn are actually pushy.
Virgos are a bit servile.
They are the type that strategically let their ulterior motives show.
★ Air sign Mars (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
They are extremely friendly.
Gemini and Aquarius use the geeky talk strategy.
Libra tries to look cool.
They are desperate to show that they have no ulterior motives.
★ Mars in Water Sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Familiar and open-hearted.
Cancer invites people into their home or neighborhood.
Scorpio and Pisces are very close.
They show their ulterior motives in a cute way.
I’ve written this to apply to both men and women, but it seems like there are a lot of women who are troubled by the level of attention a man gives them.
For example, if you’re interested in a man with Mars in an air sign, you’d think, “If he liked me, he’d be more passionate. That’s what men are supposed to do!” It would be a waste to get depressed thinking that he’s not interested in you because he treats you like a friend.
Even with Mars in Gemini, there are probably some people who are proactive and ask, “When are you going? What are you going to do?” However, it is difficult to understand that the heat and closeness of Mars is not as strong compared to Mars, which is a fire or water sign.
On the other hand, Mars in a fire sign and Mars in a water sign will close the distance even when their feelings are still light, so they are likely to think, “He’s so serious about me!?”
As expected, Mars in an earth sign is slow, but he wants “certainty,” so it’s likely to be easy to tell, like, “Did you look at me? Did our eyes meet?” Since he seems to observe the other person very closely (to avoid getting hurt as much as possible),
The fixed signs may not be very quick to act.
Leo may be passionate, but he seems to take his time to warm up the situation rather than pushing hard.
Scorpio values the mood, but he doesn’t want to immediately connect it to his ulterior motives, and he seems to value the order of revealing his true character first.
Aquarius may be quick to start a relationship, but when it comes to marriage, they won’t move until they are satisfied.
But still, it’s a waste to lament, “I’m not loved!!” – I’ve made mistakes like that too.
Mars in fixed signs doesn’t leave the situation up to the other person.
Unlike Water signs and mutable signs, it’s unlikely that they’ll say, “Whatever is fine” or “Let’s do that.”
But “Let’s do that” doesn’t equal the intensity of affection.
I think it’s a little different to say that people are respected just because they show a lot of love.
Water signs and Taurus are likely to say “I love you, I love you, I love you,” but the intensity of personal feelings and “love for the other person” are not necessarily the same thing.
I don’t think “love” can be talked about in 〇〇 sign…
At least, it doesn’t mean that having momentum and being close = deep love!
Cool and hard to understand = weak love, not at all!
That being said, they wouldn’t get close to someone they don’t like.
It’s a sin to be hard to understand…
However, Venus might help us to know if we are loved.
From Venus, we can find out what they like and how they show their affection.
Venus in Mars sign…They love the things and people that make them cheerful, and they express their love in a frank and straightforward way.
Venus in Earth sign…They love the things and people that make them feel safe, and they are very careful when expressing their love so as not to break something.
Venus in Air sign…They love the things and people that they find interesting, and they express their love with just the right amount of distance so that they don’t get bored.
Venus in Water sign …They like things and people who heal them, and their expression of love is like a devoted mist shower.
You probably don’t need to be too pessimistic if an air sign Venus person keeps their distance, but if a fire or water sign Venus person isn’t showing any interest, it may just be that nothing has started.
However, earth sign Venus people tend to hide their affections, so it can be hard to tell!
But they might suddenly give you sweets or some other “thing” to show you how useful they are to you, and then pretend to be waiting for some kind of validation. It’s so troublesome.
But what makes romance so troublesome is that people tend to disguise their thoughts as “this is how a person should do it, right?” in the sun sign.
If Mars and Venus are strong but the sun is in an air sign, it’s easy to think “people should keep it light, right?”
Even so, the “ought” that is ingrained in me is the moon.
Even if the sun and Venus seem understanding, if the moon is in Capricorn they may have very strict rules of their own.
Even though Mars and Venus seem to be affectionate, if the Moon is in Twins or Aquarius, the intense period will likely end in an instant. And then it’s left alone for a long time.
Love, where you go up and down depending on whether it’s hot or cold, may be fun, but I think it’s a waste.
Whether it’s a lover or family, the same thing is at the core of “love”.
It’s the same with pet cats, you are truly considerate so as not to hurt them, and you never do anything to make them angry.
If they don’t like it, you won’t even hold them.
It’s the same with friends.
Love and family are the same, but the times and culture have portrayed them so dramatically that I spent a lot of time thinking, “Does this person like me?” and “Can’t they show me more affection?”.
It turns out that it’s actually not that difficult to know if the other person likes you.
Maybe just checking and correcting whether your expressions of affection are being conveyed to the other person? And whether you are respecting them to the maximum extent possible?
Might be able to improve the situation.
For example, if you have Venus in an earth sign, you might want to express your gratitude by saying, “I feel reassured by you…”
As a Venus Virgo, I’m really not good at expressing myself in this way.
But it seems that this is not the time to be saying that I’m not good at it.