When I saw the information that Mr. Nakamaru seems to be taking a leave of absence, I wondered if he would commit to trying to conceive or other marital issues.
It seems he had an affair at APA.
Was it really just a secret rendezvous?
But I guess I picked up someone…
I thought he was someone who had nothing to do with cheating, but I feel like I knew somewhere that that type of person is the one who does it the most.
That said.
I really thought that if Nakamaru-kun lived his personal life as Nakamaru-kun as he was imagined, it would be more unnatural, and being a celebrity is a job of planting an image on that side.
Even if you feel somewhere in your heart that “that can’t be true,” those who have the power to overcome negative images are the ones who are successful in the entertainment industry.
I guess that’s what it means to be a professional.
Even so, I’m surprised that she would take such a risky action, even though she seems to know better than anyone what kind of image she is selling herself with.
That means…
a. All (almost) celebrities engage in cheating behavior, and the difference is whether they can hide it well or not.
b.The more celebrities sell themselves based on their image, the more oppressed they are and the deeper their psychological darkness is.
Maybe one or both of these.
Lately, I’ve been thinking that infidelity and excessive sexual behavior are related to “repression” and “dependence,” and that they don’t really link to honesty in personality.
It seems possible that violent personality and malicious sexual behavior are proportional, but people who engage in excessive sexual behavior are often described as “good at their jobs” and “trusted at work.”
I have read various books and felt that this may be related to “oppression” and “dependence.”
So, I think that people who feel repressed on a daily basis are likely to vent their feelings somewhere too.
In celebrities, this is often brought up as sexual behaviour or harassment.
People who are type A and don’t get caught probably have a considerable amount of “control”.
They use some kind of power to make people do what they want.
However, celebrities often reveal that they’re not in control.
Even though I gave him money, my playmate rushed into the weekly magazine.
I guess control doesn’t always work.
Especially control that makes fun of people.
But maybe it’s their subconscious that wants to destroy it.
They create a crack in their own destiny and try to be reborn.
I looked at Nakamaru-kun’s horoscope.
It’s unclear whether the natal Moon is in Cancer or Leo, but it’s currently in opposition to transiting Pluto.
Actually, the Progress Moon was also directly below T-Pluto, so it was probably a psychological turning point.
I feel like that’s why he got married.
Nakamaru-kun is 41 years old and is also in his Mars period, but his Mars.
Surprisingly, it was in Leo with no aspect.
What made me think was that Nakamaru-kun might have been projecting this Leo onto the “outside”.
Glamorous big names like Nakayama Hideyuki and Kanda Masaki.
Even though he’s a member of KAT-TUN, I don’t really feel like he’s expressing the non-aspected Leo Mars masculinity (flashy, exaggerated performances) himself.
I feel like Kamenashi-kun and other more mischievous members were projected onto me.
He’s probably not aware of it himself, though.
Nakamaru-kun’s Venus is also in Leo, and it has many aspects.
It’s in trine with Neptune, which seems to reflect his expressiveness as a manga artist.
I feel that this stable Venus and the intelligent Virgo Sun make Nakamaru-kun appear to be “a somewhat comical but stable person with a skillful personality”.
The non-aspected Leo Mars makes me think that he would like to express himself more.
I think that was shown on shows like Shuichi, but I wonder if that was a brightness within the “range of Virgo”.
If that was shown in a closed romantic setting, then in the case of Leo, things don’t stay closed forever.
At first glance, Nakamaru’s marriage to a Nippon TV announcer seems glamorous and open, but the “image” required of her through marriage may have been a form of oppression for Nakamaru.
But that’s just a wild guess.
If you suppress your individuality, that true nature will mostly be revealed on the outside.
Maybe the amount of repression I was suppressing will be released in excess and I will destroy myself.
Or you are destroyed by something from outside.
The “self” finally emerges by destroying it.
I think some people will recover themselves that way.
It doesn’t always happen in the form of a scandal like with celebrities.
Maybe you continue doing something that is bad for your body for a long time and collapse, and then feel reborn, or you destroy your relationships and lose a lot of things, and then make a V-shaped recovery.
The other day, Yoshimura Takashi of Heisei Nobushikobushi said, “I’ll never get married because I’ll 100% cheat.”
He seems to be the type who can’t “be faithful to one person.”
In fact, Yoshimura also has a non-aspected Mars.
Saturn is close to Virgo Mars, but with an orb of 7 degrees.
His Moon and Venus are in Gemini, and in opposition to Neptune.
This makes him seem popular and frivolous.
Gemini people are certainly not the type to “be faithful to one person.”
Many of these types have a blurred line between their girlfriend and female friends.
Yoshimura has Saturn in square to his Venus, so that probably puts the brakes on him just enough.
Yoshimura’s non-aspected Virgo Mars gives the impression of being a “workaholic.”
He also seems to be the type of person who is very strategic.
I want to work and I want to play.
In order to achieve both, I don’t dare to take the marriage card.
I felt that this was reflected in his horoscope.
He has an exquisite balance between recklessness and caution.
His sun is in Cancer.
It’s square with Pluto.
If he were to get married, his style of comedy might change drastically.
It’s possible that they avoid marriage because they don’t like that.
I don’t think Pluto would listen to him saying “no” (it would try to get him to overcome it somehow)
I feel that what happens around me, the people I meet, and the people I hang out with are a part of me.
The part of ourselves that we repress is expressed by someone in front of us.
That’s why we start to dislike them. Because we don’t want to see it.
People who are easily distracted even when they have a partner may not want to see the “self” that is reflected in their partner when they get close.
So they repeat the cycle of “no, next person!”, changing partners, and then feeling relieved.
Once they get close, they run away again, or they become immersed in a “physical only” relationship where they don’t have to look inside.
The “self that you don’t want to see” may only happen when you’re feeling repressed by something, so rest is really important.
I feel like the fact that he’s having an affair even though he can’t get enough rest is a psychological warning sign.